To the Women Who’ve Spent Their Lives Giving: What Do You Need Now?

I’m asking a question that matters.

Not to my business. Not to my strategy. But to you.

To the women in their 50s, 60s, and 70s—what do you actually need?

I spent 16 years being “the strong one.” Caregiving. Widowhood. Sepsis three times. I gave everything to everyone else while my own life waited in the wings.

At 57, I finally chose myself. I left everything familiar. I rebuilt from scratch. I learned what embodiment means—not performing strength, but being strong. Not sacrificing my body, but honoring it as sanctuary.

Now I’m teaching other women to do the same. And I’m building this work with you, not just for you.

So I need to know:

What Support Would Actually Change Your Life Right Now?

What conversations are you starving for but no one’s having?

What does community look like when it’s built for women who’ve already survived everything—and are now ready to thrive?

I don’t want to assume. I want to listen.

Because here’s what I know: We’ve been taught to be everything to everyone else. The caregiver. The strong one. The one who holds it all together while our own dreams, our own bodies, our own selves get pushed to the side.

And now? Many of us are finally in a season where we can choose ourselves—but we don’t even know what that looks like. We’ve forgotten how to ask for what we need. Or worse, we’ve been told for so long that our needs don’t matter.

They do.

Your healing matters. Your rest matters. Your becoming matters.

What Would a Community Built for Your Becoming Actually Look Like?

So tell me—what would this space need to offer you?

Would it be a space for honest conversations about grief, loss, and reinvention after caregiving?

The kind of conversations where you don’t have to explain yourself. Where other women understand what it’s like to lose years of your life to service, only to emerge not knowing who you are anymore.

Would it be practical guidance on building businesses that honor Sabbath rest instead of consuming you?

Not the hustle-culture noise that tells you to grind harder. But Kingdom-aligned business building that protects your peace, honors sacred rest, and creates revenue without self-abandonment.

Would it be permission to treat your body as a temple—not a tool for serving others, but a sanctuary worth protecting?

Learning what embodiment actually means when you’ve only ever known your body as a responsibility. What it feels like to be fully present, fully alive, fully inhabiting the body God gave you.

Would it be sisterhood with women who understand that “starting over” at 50, 60, 70 isn’t failure—it’s courage?

A community where choosing yourself at midlife and beyond isn’t seen as selfish—it’s recognized as sacred stewardship.

I’m Listening. Because the Sovereign Soft Life Isn’t Something I’m Selling You.

It’s something we’re building together.

I’m building The Becoming Her Collective—a community for women in their second act who are ready to:

• Heal from trauma and embody their sovereignty
• Build Kingdom-aligned businesses that honor Sabbath rest
• Treat their bodies as temples, not tools
• Create the Proverbs 31 life—strong, sovereign, building from overflow
• Finally choose themselves without guilt or apology

But before I build it, I want to know what you actually need.

Tell Me: What Do You Need?

DM me on Instagram, Threads, or Facebook. Email me a message. Let me know.

• What do you need?
• What would support you?
• What would make you feel seen?

Your voice matters here. Your becoming matters here.

And if you’re reading this thinking, “I don’t even know what I need anymore”—start there. That’s okay. Becoming begins with the question, not the answer.

Let’s figure this out together.

This is your invitation.

This is your becoming.

ABOUT KAREN Y. MOORE:

Karen Y. Moore is an Embodiment Strategist and Kingdom Business Advisor teaching women 40+ to build the sovereign soft life. After 16 years of caregiving, three sepsis survivals, and widowhood, she chose herself at 57 and now helps other women do the same.

She’s an IIN Integrative Wellness Coach, Certified Christian Life Coach, and author of Healing Whispers and Becoming Her: The Sovereign Soft Life of a Kingdom Woman.

Connect with Karen at karenymoore.com or on Instagram @kymlifestyle.